Keep it short and simple
The best first dates are easy to say yes to and easy to end politely.
An hour or two is plenty. You're only trying to answer one question: would I like to see this person again? If it goes well, you'll have a reason to plan a second.
Ideas with fresh air and something to talk about
Pick somewhere public and easy for both of you to reach.
- A walk with a pub at the end. Walking side by side makes conversation easy, and the pub gives you a natural finishing point.
- A farmers' market. Lots to see and taste, and plenty to chat about.
- A garden centre café. Relaxed, daytime and a good choice in any weather.
- An agricultural or country show. Animals, food stalls and crafts give you endless talking points.
- A National Trust garden or country park. A gentle stroll in lovely surroundings.
- Something you both enjoy. If you've found a shared interest while chatting, such as fishing, riding or birdwatching, build the date around it.
Ideas to save for later
- Long, remote hikes. Wonderful once you know each other, but keep a first meeting somewhere with other people around.
- Anywhere at their home or yours. Wait until you know each other much better.
- Days out that depend on a lift. Make sure you can always get yourself home.
Before you go
- Tell a friend where you're going, who you're meeting and when you expect to be home.
- Check the weather and your route, and dress for being outdoors.
- Check their profile one more time. The ID Verified tick and a good member rating are good signs. Our guide to what the badges mean explains them.
Trust your instincts. If a date asks you for money, pushes you to go somewhere you didn't plan, or simply makes you uncomfortable, it's fine to leave. You can report a profile at any time, and the 24-hour Customer Success team is always there to help.