If you farm
Being upfront about your life saves time for everyone.
- Say it on your profile. Mention that you farm and what that means for your time. The right people will be interested, not put off.
- Be honest about busy seasons. If lambing, harvest or calving means you'll go quiet for a few weeks, say so before it happens.
- Make the most of quieter times. A short date that fits round the work is better than waiting for a free weekend that never comes.
If you're dating a farmer
Understanding the rhythm of farming life goes a long way.
- Expect early nights. A farmer who leaves at nine probably has a very early start.
- Be flexible. Animals and weather don't always follow plans, so dates may move at short notice.
- Show an interest. Ask about the farm. Many farmers love sharing what they do, and you might enjoy helping out.
Dates that fit round the farm
- A Sunday lunch at a local pub between jobs.
- A walk round the farm, once you've met in public first and know each other a little.
- A trip to an agricultural show or a farmers' market.
For more ideas, read country first date ideas.